Many parents ask me, “What can I do to get my child into music?” For many, the most obvious answer is to enroll your child in private lessons. That’s a great idea, and it’s certainly on this list, but there are other options that are just as important to explore and implement.
1.) LISTEN to music.
We all spend so much time in the car these days. Take advantage of this time to listen to some great classical works. Just like introducing a new food, we have to taste the music several times to become accustomed to the sounds and patterns. Pick a CD that includes music from a composer we have been studying. Play it often, and ask your students if they can sing, hum, or whistle parts of it. If you listen to something every day for a week, your child should be able to hum some of the principal themes (the most prominent tunes) of the work.
There is an important component to this activity: YOUR attitude towards the music. If you convey that this music is something distasteful or boring to be “gotten through” before listening to the “fun stuff,” you do your child’s education a great disservice. Classical music may not be your cup of tea, but the most important thing you can do to encourage your child to love and appreciate music is to share classical music with them with an attitude that conveys a great openness to and appreciation for the great works.
2.) ASK about music class.
When you ask about your child’s day, you might ask them about their various subjects. Don’t forget to ask about their specials! Always ask if their class did PE, Art, Music, or Spanish today. Ask what they learned, and ask them to sing you one of their songs. When students know that you are going to ask about the song of the month, they will make sure to tell you as the months change which new patriotic song they are learning. Ask them to write and perform a rhythm or melody for you, using the rhythms and pitches they’ve learned in class. You can always check the lesson plan I post each week to see that your child is learning the songs and skills we are covering. If you make it a priority to ask about music, they make it a priority to learn it!
3.) ATTEND CONCERTS as a family.
Of course, your child is going to be part of music concerts at Archway, and it is required that they attend. If you want to really pique your child’s interest in music, however, make time to attend concerts, ballets, and operas given by local arts organizations, outside the required concerts at school. The Phoenix Symphony offers a series specifically for families, but that doesn’t mean that you have to limit yourself to only that sort of concert. Many of the community colleges, ASU, and local music schools offer concerts that are low-cost, or even free. Worried about behavior during the concert? Have the concert on the family calendar well ahead of time to build anticipation for the event, and make it special. Take the time beforehand to discuss what is appropriate concert behavior. You can have the concert etiquette conversation several times, whenever you talk about plans for the event. Sometimes we underestimate how well a child can do in new situations. Preparing them for what to expect will go a long way to having a smooth and enjoyable concert experience. Not sure about concert etiquette yourself? Read this guide from the Phoenix Symphony before the big day (or evening) so that you and your family will feel comfortable knowing what to do at the concert.
4.) TAKE music lessons.
This last suggestion is wonderful, not just for kids, but for adults as well. If your child shows an interest in studying piano, strings, or percussion at an early age, it is encouraged that you enroll them in private lessons. For woodwind or brass instruments, you should first contact a private teacher to have them evaluate your child to make sure they are well-suited to and physically mature enough for the instrument they wish to play. Some things you need to consider: Age four or five or six is not too young for some kids, but it is for others. Your child needs to be able to sit still for at least 15-30 minutes. This does not mean sitting still in front of a TV or computer; it means sitting, engaged and absorbed in a meaningful learning or creative activity for 15-30 minutes. Lessons involve a real time commitment EVERY day, not just Tuesdays at 5:30. Your child needs to practice at least 5 days a week outside of lesson time, for the time prescribed by the private teacher. Inevitably, the newness of lessons will wear off, and some children want to quit when they encounter a skill or exercise that is not easy. Once you make the commitment, you must follow through, or the only thing your child will learn is that quitting is acceptable. The MOST important part of music lessons is to teach your child many of the best things in life require discipline, perseverance, and responsibility.
Lesson Plan: K-1 Music 9-10-2012